In our modern culture, we may not give them much thought, but people throughout the ages have understood the power of remembering our ancestors.

Our ancestors are the silent architects of our very being, guiding us through the echoes of their lives, beliefs, and experiences, and innately woven into the fabric of our existence. Their stories, struggles, and triumphs are held within our DNA, consciousness, and cultural inheritance, shaping the foundations of who we are today. Every worldview, tradition, and wound carried forward acts as a thread in the tapestry of the unique story of your soul’s unfolding.

As lineage holders, we carry the legacy of those who came before us and have the opportunity to alchemize it into our own meaningful purpose and potential. Their hopes and fears, lessons and secrets, reside within us, calling us to honor our roots as we forge our new paths. In understanding their influence, we can reclaim the wisdom buried beneath generations of experience and use it as a powerful anchor and compass.

The deeper we explore these ancestral echoes, the more we realize that our true strength lies in integrating their wisdom into the narrative of our lives. Our roots ground us, and whether we realize it or not, our lineage fuels our dreams. In embracing our ancestors’ legacy, we discover that our personal mythos isn’t just a story of individual heroism, but a sacred unfolding of a centuries-old tapestry of resilience, love, and transformation.

EXERCISES

Reflect on family and cultural stories

~ How much do you know about your own ancestors? Explore family traditions, stories, practices and histories. Talk to grandparents or elders from where you grew up, read ancestral records, or meditate on family roots. What gifts do they carry from your lineage? Allow their stories to reveal lessons, strengths, and unresolved wounds that still resonate within you.


Create an ancestral altar

~ Our ancestors are with us and want to be remembered and present in our lives. They can help to guide and support us on our path. They can communicate wisdom to us through psychic impressions, memories, and emotions.

~ Set up a clean sacred space as an altar. A white silk cloth is the best, with a drop of bodily fluid on it such as saliva to mark your scent. Decorate your altar lovingly with photos, objects, or symbols that represent your ancestors. Light white candles and incense such as frankinscence or copal to call them. Offer traditional foods they would have eaten (no salt though), a glass of their traditional alcoholic spirits, or loose pure tobacco. The evening before the new moon is a great time to connect. Sit quietly, inviting their spirits and wisdom to come through and guide you.

~ Leave the food and candles burning for an hour or two to give them time to consume their energy. Then extinguish the candles, and dispose of the offerings respectfully in nature within 24 hours.

~ See if you can commit to honour them on a regular basis, whatever is realistic, and let them know. Whether weekly, monthly, or just on certain holidays such as Hallow’een or Day of the Dead. They will appreciate it and be able to support you more in turn.


Guided Visualization

Use visualization techniques to connect with ancestors. Imagine walking through a place of significance connected to your ancestry, such as a stone circle or a temple, meeting the spirits of your lineage, and opening your heart to their guidance and teachings. Come back the same way.

Ancestral knowledge systems

It can be wonderfully rewarding to learn about indigenous traditions, ancestral practices, or spiritual teachings from your cultural background. You may discover some hidden talents you were not aware of. Incorporate their wisdom into your life through any practices that resonate deeply, such as prayer, dance, storytelling, or herbal medicine.

Listen to your intuition and dreams

Particularly as you do this work, pay close attention to intuitive insights and dreams that may carry ancestral messages. Connecting with the ancestors invites insights to come through in this way. Keep a journal of dreams and impressions, and reflect on messages that might reveal guidance or hidden truths.

Release and heal ancestral wounds

We all have the opportunity to heal wounds from our ancestral lines. In this way we clear the path for our own flourishing and those of our family and entire lineage. Incredibly, this works through time as well; we heal and release our ancestors from their karma as we heal, and we heal and liberate those who have not yet even been born. Consciously work through any ancestral wounds or patterns that may still affect you. Forgiveness, release rituals, or inner work can free you from generational burdens and open space for their wisdom to shine through.

Connect with nature

Spend time in nature, especially in sacred or ancestral sites. Nature acts as a bridge to the Earth and to our lineage, helping us feel rooted and in harmony with the wisdom of our ancestors. What do the ancient stones, trees, rivers and mountains have to share of your history?