Lessons Learned

We’ll begin by looking at the key areas of our lives so far and identifying what’ve learned.

Our whole lives can be viewed as a spiritual curriculum, a kind of school where we face certain tasks and tests that prepare us to graduate to the next ‘level’. If you’re at this turning point in your life, you are probaby at one of these graduation points and so it can be helpful to consolidate what you’ve learned so you’re fully ready to move on.

Self-reflection on the lessons learned so far is a powerful practice that can free us from the weight of unresolved energies and lingering patterns from the past. By gently examining our journey, we create space to acknowledge what has been, release what no longer serves us, and clear the emotional clutter that keeps us tethered to old wounds and limiting beliefs. This process allows us to approach the future from a fresh baseline, an open canvas for who we are becoming.

Reflecting on our growth also helps us recognize how far we have come. Celebrating our progress illuminates our strengths, resilience, and the wisdom we have cultivated along the way. It reminds us of the breakthroughs, the lessons absorbed, and the inner resources we can draw upon as we continue to evolve. At the same time, true reflection reveals areas where we might want to invest more attention or grace. These are the aspects of our journey where growth is still possible, and where tenderness and patience can guide us toward greater mastery and balance.

We can be honest in our self-reflection. This only affirms that we are on a sacred journey of becoming, and encourages us to honor our progress, learn from our experiences, and view each chapter as a vital part of our unique story.

EXERCISE

Astrological house self reflection

The houses in astrology represent different aspects of our lives, each governed by the fundamental energies of the zodiac. They serve as a natural framework for understanding how we are progressing in various areas of our personal development. Reflecting on the houses allows us to assess where we are thriving and where growth may still be needed, providing insight into how the energies of the planets and signs manifest within different facets of our existence. In this way, the houses offer a structured and intuitive way to evaluate our journey and align more consciously with the flow of our evolving self.

For each house, reflect upon it’s key lessons, questions, and what you feel have been the treasure or gifts from your journey in these areas so far. You can refer to the examples or you can find your own.